On Being Master [Writing]

Original Link to MasterHK’s Writing Reprinted with Author’s permission. Copyright 2009 MasterHK

Charles John Allen (1862-1956) Love and the Mermaid (1895-6) front left - Walker Art Gallery, Liverpool, May 2012 By ketrin1407 Via Flickr

Charles John Allen (1862-1956) Love and the Mermaid (1895-6) front left – Walker Art Gallery, Liverpool, May 2012 By ketrin1407 Via Flickr



I frequently see communication trying to explain a Master’s qualities or, more often, disappointment because a “Master” did not live up to assumed standards. Here is My opinion on being a Master.

The title Master found most often in the “Lifestyle” is an honorific term to identify the dominant partner in a Dominant/submissive relationship or the Master role in the Master/slave relationship. It might even be used as a term of endearment among players who neither consider themselves to be owned nor owner. The use of “Master” in most cases, does not imply any specific expertise, abilities or formal training. A Master is commonly understood to have authority over the submissive or slave to some degree.

I believe that Master encompasses a much broader definition. The title Master is a title of honor given to men of authority or high rank. It implies respect, authority over others, and dominance (the power to defeat). A Master should be an artist of consummate skill, a mentor sharing experience, knowledge, and wisdom, a guru awakening dormant desires, a just and caring disciplinarian, a friend and a teacher. He will always act with the best interests of His submissive/slave in mind. Too many so-called Master’s seem to think that the world revolves around Their will and hers be damned! This may work for those wanting to dominate or be dominated but it is far from a true Master/submissive or Master/slave relationship!

His discipline will be intimate, appropriate, and NEVER in anger. The purpose of discipline is not to administer pain. The purpose is to teach, to correct, and most important, to improve. An element of pain should be used when it delivers an appropriate message. It’s an excellent “wake up” tool! But other tasks like focused writing, physical tasks, or intimate discussion provide the real education and improvement. Discipline must be intimate! It is too easy for a submissive/slave to feel lost, abandoned, or rejected, which is counterproductive. her knowledge that “i’ve screwed up” should be coupled with a sense that it will be okay and she still belongs to her Master. Intimate discipline is by far the most effective discipline!

The connection between Master and submissive/slave is very strong, almost beyond description. It underlies all activities and spans large distances. A Master provides a calm sense of belonging, a sense of inner strength, a sense of safety. This physical intimacy and mental connection naturally becomes mirrored in a strong sexual/erotic connection. Sexual passion is flowing in every command, whisper, touch and even task. This is the all encompassing bond between Master and submissive/slave. To be a Master is much more than a title before a name. It is responsibility, caring, the ability to nurture trust and faith in His submissive/slave. One is Master only when both He and His submissive/slave believes He is Master!


Original Link to MasterHK’s Writing Reprinted with Author’s permission. Copyright 2009 MasterHK

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  1. I love this post because it matches what my Master does and is.

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